t a p e s t r y . o f . CONUNDRUMS

is this too much?

when one moves on from a relationship to the next
and the new partner comes across your blog that contains 80% of posts on the ex
the posts contain nothing explicit…just feelings and experiences related to the relationship
would you remove all posts related to the ex because it causes “uneasiness” to the current partner?

i know someone who did that for his current girlfriend of almost 2 years
because he’s so in love with her and he wants to prove to her
that all chapters of his previous relationship are closed
and he cannot stand to see her miserable

is what he did, too much?

June 27, 2008 Posted by paradigma | musings | | 2 Comments

m . i . a

i received an email notification reminding me that i’ve not been writing here for some time. tq…will.

a lot has happened, yet certain things remain the same.
my personal life has gone from good to better.
i wish i could say the same about my professional life. it has become stale. it’s neither progressing nor regressing. however, i think, being stale is being unproductive enough.

what have i done lately? let’s see…
i’ve written a letter to God…asking him why he keeps throwing challenges at me. especially challenges that i’ve overcome. He just keeps putting me in different scenarios that have the same concept. i guess i’ve not “passed the test” yet.

a random ramble…
porn. yes, porn. guys, help me out here. is a girlfriend supposed to be alright with her guy indulging in porn? ok, not the over-the-top, strange and bordering on sick kind..but basic, old school types. i understand that girls indulge in this “hobby” too. my question is, if you’re in a committed relationship, is this alright?

June 1, 2008 Posted by paradigma | musings | | 3 Comments